Fact: Kids love to push the limits. Fact: Rebellion is a human condition. Yet there are things we do as parents that encourage the growth and intensity of a rebellious heart. Here are 9 ways to fan the flames of rebellion. Expect perfection: Performance based parenting focuses on the outside observables rather than internal notables. Notice outcomes but focus on developing your child’s character. Rather than only commentating on appearance or performance, “You look so beautiful” say, “Thanks for helping your sister today. You have such a kind heart.” Punish for every infraction: Instead start saying what you want. When the child messes up, retrain. Next move to a natural consequence, …
